{"id":220,"date":"2013-05-20T10:30:20","date_gmt":"2013-05-20T01:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catatanstefano.wordpress.com\/?p=220"},"modified":"2013-05-20T10:30:20","modified_gmt":"2013-05-20T01:30:20","slug":"9-pertanyaan-yang-tidak-pernah-ditanyakan-orang-yang-tidak-bahagia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catatanstefano.ddns.net\/?p=220","title":{"rendered":"9 Pertanyaan Yang Tidak Pernah Ditanyakan Orang Yang Tidak Bahagia"},"content":{"rendered":"

We have within us the power to start over again. The future is always beginning now.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Every experience \u2013 positive and negative, strength and weakness, love and hate, health and sickness \u2013 adds to your personal growth.\u00a0 You will never be called upon to face any challenge which you do not possess the strength to overcome.<\/p>\n

But there are great enemies: anxiety, fear, worry, etc.\u00a0 These inner demons set up conditions which disturb and prevent the clear thinking you require.<\/p>\n

Calmness, confidence, receptiveness \u2013 with these your spirit can flourish; with these you will find the answers you want from day to day, and even more importantly, you will find the right questions.<\/p>\n

So when stress and unhappiness begins weighing down on you, take a deep breath, clear your mind and ask yourself\u2026<\/p>\n

1. \u201cShould I turn around?\u201d \u2013 Sometimes when it feels like you\u2019re running into one dead end after another, it\u2019s actually a sign that you\u2019re not on the right path.\u00a0 Maybe you were meant to hang a left back when you took a right, and that\u2019s perfectly okay.\u00a0 U-turns are allowed in life.\u00a0 Remember, no one wins a game of chess by only moving forward; sometimes you have to move backward to put yourself in a position to win.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cWhat makes me happy?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 Whatever you decide to do, make sure it makes you happy.\u00a0 Someday you will look back over your life and you will realize that the best moments \u2013 when you felt most alive \u2013 were the moments when you let your instincts and passions guide you.\u00a0 If your passion takes you down a path few people travel, so be it.\u00a0 Some people may ridicule you for being different and not living up to society\u2019s standards, but deep down, some part of them wishes they had the courage to do the same.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cIs it time to write the next chapter?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 When people undermine your dreams, predict your doom, or criticize you, remember, they\u2019re telling you their story, not yours.\u00a0 It\u2019s time to take your life back from the people and circumstances that are causing you pain and making you unhappy.\u00a0 This is your life and you\u2019re the author of your story.\u00a0 If you\u2019re feeling like you\u2019ve been stuck in the same negative setting for too long, it\u2019s time to start writing a new chapter of your life.<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhat can I do now to change my situation?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 When you blame everyone and everything else, you give up your power to change.\u00a0 So don\u2019t get too upset with other people and peripheral situations.\u00a0 They are powerless without your reaction.\u00a0 Take full accountability of your life.\u00a0 External forces may be able to knock you down on occasion, but keeping you there is a whole different ball game \u2013 keeping you there is a choice only you can make.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cWhat have I been doing wrong all along?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 When you are willing to fail miserably, you are able to achieve greatly.\u00a0 It is by facing the sometimes ugly truth that life opens up to us.\u00a0 Admitting your mistakes and weaknesses does not diminish your strength, it shows your courage and development.\u00a0 Sometimes you have to shut up, swallow your pride and accept that you were wrong.\u00a0 It\u2019s not giving up, it\u2019s growing up.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cWhat do I need to try again?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 Just because you have faced many defeats in your life does not mean you have been defeated.\u00a0 Life has many ways of testing your willpower, either by having prolonged periods where nothing happens, or by having everything happen at once.\u00a0 This is why you have to be strong when you feel like giving up, and you have to fight when you just want to run away.\u00a0 Because sometimes that\u2019s all you can do to KEEP GOING \u2013 which is precisely what you need to do.<\/p>\n

7. \u201cHow can I motivate myself?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 To accomplish great things, you must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.\u00a0 Be a dreamer, a believer, a courageous and cheerful thinker.\u00a0 Be a planner, a doer, a go-getter who keeps her head in the clouds and her feet on the ground.\u00a0 Let the spirit of passion and possibility ignite a fire within you to do something worthwhile and leave this world a little better than you found it.<\/p>\n

8. \u201cWhat excuses am I making?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 When something is a priority it gets done.\u00a0 Period.\u00a0 And it\u2019s not what we claim are our priorities, but how we spend our time each day that reveals the truth.\u00a0 You can make excuses.\u00a0 You can always try to wait for the perfect moment, the perfect this, the perfect that\u2026 but it won\u2019t get you anywhere.\u00a0 To get where you want to go you just have to start DOING.\u00a0 It makes all the difference.\u00a0 Making excuses takes the same amount of time as making progress.\u00a0<\/p>\n

9. \u201cWhat other questions should I be asking?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 The most common and harmful addiction in the world is the draw of comfort.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be someone who never asks, \u201chow?\u201d or never pulls back further to ask, \u201cwhy?\u201d\u00a0 Too many people don\u2019t ask these questions because they know the answers would require substantial disruption to their comfort zone, and they don\u2019t want to endure it.\u00a0 But that\u2019s how the human mind grows.\u00a0 When your mind is stretched with new questions and the resulting experiences, it never shrinks back to its previous dimensions \u2013 you are forever more competent and capable.
\nThe floor is yours\u2026<\/p>\n

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